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Feb 15
16:58
So I gave my bf a good Valentine's gift. All I got in return was a small bag of chocolates. No flowers or a cute letter. He also made me paid for dinner. He has an amazing job so money is not an issue. I feel so bad because I feel like I'm being ungrateful. I was just hoping for him to show more effort.
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Feb 15
17:00
I understand the chocolate as you didn't give him a present expecting to get one in return and Valentine's Day isn't really a time to give lavish gifts. But you should've split the bill evenly especially if he has a good job.
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Feb 15
17:01
Tell him he needs to show more affection. I don't think u care about the gifts them selfs I feel like it's more as the thought?
 
Feb 15
17:03
Yeah I could care less about an expensive gift. I just felt like I didn't matter. In the middle of our dinner he got a text from a girl. So idk I think I'm just hurt from everything.
 
Feb 15
17:03
Showing affection DOSENT mean buying all the time. U can hold hands, kiss more ,write notes, random acts of sex. Honestly it's v day why did he make u pay for dinner? My bf paid for my movie and gifts I paid for sea food dinner it should have been equal!
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Feb 15
17:04
Wait what @dlover_ what girl???
 
Feb 15
17:18
Yeah we had dinner and his phone was on the table and he got a message from a girl whom I didn't recognize her name. She said "hey what are you doing tonight?" And I asked him and he said that it was a friend and told me not to ruin the night by overreacting over a simple text.
 
Feb 15
17:19
........ yea this relationship isn't going to last. I tend to note is that when people lie they tend to make themselves feel like the victim and tell you to stop overreacting and taking things too seriously. Her asking him what he's doing on Valentine's Day is a red flag. I'm not telling you who she is and him having random people you never heard of is a red flag. Unless you just started dating and don't know his friends.... make sure not to buy him any gifts from now on.
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Feb 15
17:29
We been together for 3.5 years. Yeah, I brought it up again and he said that it's just a friend. I almost have a feeling that he went to see her after. He dropped me off at my house super early. He picked me up at 6 and was back at 8
 
Feb 15
17:35
A text from a girl you don't know, asking what he's doing on valentines night? That does not sound good to me. 🙅🏻 On top of that he should of offered to pay half of the dinner. Things should be equal! He dropped you off that early? I don't know something smells fishy around here. Especially with just that simple message, makes me feel like he did possibly go see that girl? 🤷🏻‍♀️ and the fact that he dropped you off so early and you guys didn't go do anything else. Look you don't need to take our words to heart, but things don't feel right around here. You don't need to ask him about the girl again but maybe sit him down and try to see if he is still serious/committed to your relationship. It's unfair for you to stay in a relationship hat is one-sided.
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Feb 15
17:41
You've been together 3 1/2 years I think you know what's going on. I don't need to say anymore.
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Feb 15
17:50
Girl you know sometimes wrong, demand an explanation any time wasted on a guy who doesn't love you could be spent on a guy who does
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Feb 15
17:52
You all right! I know something is going on! I can't be fooling myself and believing that nothing is wrong.
 
Feb 15
18:22
That's sketchy as hell
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Feb 15
20:25
he went to see her after. without a doubt. i never jump to conclusions but this is so obvious it physically hurts.
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Feb 15
20:51
What are you going to do?
 
Feb 15
21:02
Thats really sketchy. Talk to him is the only thing you can really do now
 
Feb 15
21:30
That's horrible, once you said some girl texted him and she asked him what he was doing, it had me thinking the same as the rest of the girls. He was too obvious about what's going on
 
Feb 15
21:58
He asked me to see him tonight. He's picking me up at 7:/ I think this is it for us.
 
Feb 15
22:17
You will find someone who respects you, there are more fish in the sea, and you have your whole life ahead of you, don't waste it on a man who doesn't know what he wants. @dlover_
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Feb 15
22:39
@Dlover_ Hun I'm sure whatever happens will be for the best, let us know and good luck 😘
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Feb 15
23:59
Let us know!!
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Feb 16
06:06
Please know your worth and know that you deserve so much better than the way he is treating you !
 
Feb 16
18:16
So update. I went out yesterday and to my surprise he explained and showed me all the messages between him and the girl. She's a professional sketcher. They were booking a sketch session for both of us. 🙄 he ended up taking me to a really fancy place and the girl was there drawing us while we had dinner🙄 omg!
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Feb 16
18:33
oh damn!!!! that's amazing!!!! what a different outcome than we all originally thought!!! that's so sweet of him ☺
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Feb 16
18:34
I was so surprised!!! I was ready to dump him 😭
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